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Some people are...

Simply awesome. They seem to have gone up a step in the ladder in order to spice up my life a little more. In fact, it works :) For me and not for them though, Sadly. I mean, as time goes, you do learn how to overcome such wonderful beings in your life. Right?. This may sound a typical thing but seriously there are people who can go over a greater extent of annoyance. They drive you crazy. I like people who come straight to you and say, listen I am not very happy with this and I wanted you to know this etc. Although I've had no one saying this to me. At least not yet. But people talk about you simply because to get over their burning jealousy. There is an attention I get from this though ;).
The preference from my point of view is really, not to ignore them, but not to react to them either. Just move on with whatever you are doing. If at a point you think you need to have a word, go ahead. There is a threshold point somewhere up until you got to be very patient and take-in sort but its not your fault if the catalyst drives you up to the point so fast. I would have no regrets in losing one number in my list of contacts, who is rather a back stab and not an at least average honest being. This will in turn add a number to my happiness. But I still haven't completely become immune to these pipsqueaks and I don't think anyone can that easily.
I am learning....learning about people...learning to overcome those who are trying to tax my emotions and time.
Why can't they get a life!!


brocasarea said…
people managament is so important...good luck!
Hemanth Potluri said…
not everyone is the same...good thing is ur learning abt all soon enough ...and yeah u can easily overcome those who play with ur emotions...

Saranya S said…
Pratap: Indeed...thanks for the wishes, lol.

Hemanth: True. Everyone is different to various extents. And some are just to a higher degree. Ah well. thanks :)
Karthik said…
Was listening to BEAT IT JUST BEAT IT song..

When I came to the last para, the song was


Anonymous said…
aww seems like somone's been bugging you. Like you said ignore them, and anyway you have better things to use ur time for - like ur blogging which i totally love

Naima xx
Vani said…
U already seem to know an awful lot abt ppl management :)) Be a tough nut..Dont crack up..Instead, crack up dos who bug u..U go girl :))
Vani said…
U already seem to know an awful lot abt ppl management :)) Be a tough nut..Dont crack up..Instead, crack up dos who bug u..U go girl :))

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